I recently added apple touch icons to my website. When I add the site to my favorites on my iPad or my wife's 4S it uses the icon. I think that's only because I had never bookmarked the site on those devices before.
On my iPhone, I had previously bookmarked the website in my favorites and it used the generic first number/letter of the website's name as the touch icon. Now that I've got touch icons on there, I can't get it to use them. I've tried clearing the website data on Safari on my phone, closing the browser and reopening it, even shutting off and restarting the phone. No matter what I do, it still uses the generic touch icon. Is there anything I can do to get it to update?
Here's the website: 3to1video.com
I just bookmarked it on my iPhone and added to the home screen and can see the Icon. It did take a while(2s) to get the icon.
Try and see if you get it with a faster web connection and wait for the icon to appear before saving it. Also Try adding it as a home screen icon and see if that works.
Nice site btw.