This code generates a blank space, a misalignment and a misposition as you can see in the image.
<CommandBar Grid.Row="1" IsOpen="True" VerticalAlignment="Stretch">
<AppBarButton Icon="Add" Label="Nuovo" MinHeight="40" />
</CommandBar>
You can see the blank space, the add icon is too high, the Label is misplaced (more space from the icon is needed).

CommandBar is designed to be used in Page.TopAppBar or Page.BottomAppBar. So if you just want to to show it at bottom of the page, put it in Page.BottomAppBar plainly. Then it will work without any problems.
Or otherwise, if you'd like to manage to use it in the Grid inside Page.Content customizing height or other behaviors, you have to redesign entire Style for CommandBar including Template and Animations, since some important properties are hard-coded in the default Style.