Xdebug 3 on Windows server via VSCode remote connection

Question

I'm almost there but this last bit is driving me crazy.

I have a Windows Server with PHP Xdebug installed. Xdebug config:

[xdebug]
zend_extension=php_xdebug.dll
xdebug.mode=debug
xdebug.client_host=10.0.1.11
xdebug.client_port=9003

In my VSCode, remotely connected to my Windows Server, I've installed the Xdebug extension. This is my config:

{
  "name": "Listen for XDebug",
  "type": "php",
  "request": "launch",
  "hostname": "10.0.1.11",
  "port": 9003,
  "pathMappings": {
    "C:\\inetpub\\wwwroot": "${workspaceFolder}/",
  },
  "log": true
}

Now, I know I'm close because if I add xdebug.start_with_request=yes to my Xdebug config, I can see the connections appearing on my VSCode debug output (since the log is on).

I can't get it to break on my breakpoints though. I also see them in the logs, but when I make a request it just goes through without stopping. (and I'm sure the code with the breakpoint is called. I confirmed it with a good old fashioned die()).

Any suggestions?