How to Correctly typeset two word last name in Bibtex in narrative

Question

This post here explains how to use BibTex for an author with multiple parts to a last name.

My question is slightly different. When formatted as below, this gives the correctly formatted reference on my reference page. But, inside the narrative where I use \cite{doe2024} it always prints (J.K van der Doe, 2024). what I want instead in the narrative is only (van der Doe, 2024), or just the last name and not the initials.

Of course, using author={van der Doe} in the BibTex entry makes this true in the narrative giving what I want there, but then the actual reference on my reference page loses the intial, which I do want there.

@article{doe2024,
  title={A title of some kind},
  author={{van der Doe}, Jon K.},
  journal={Journal of Something},
  year={2024},
  volume={1},
  number ={1}}