Intellij: JVM remote debug no log showing upon process startup and intellij and not stopping at breakpoint (Connection Prematurilly closed)

Question

I am remote trying to establish remote debugging after ssh tunneling on PORT 9045 of my remote dev server. However even though I am able to access http://localhost:9045 in my machine, my JVM debugger would just not start.

Here's my Debugger config:

Upon running debug, I get this:

And after a minute or so, I get this message:

Can anyone help me understand what is possibly going wrong here? I have tested hitting local nedpoint in my machine to make sure connection is established on port 9045.