I have two sequence Diagrams, where the only difference is that in the one a message is surrounded by a VETO and in the other by REFUSE. I know that when looking at the positive traces the veto returns empty positive trace while refuse returns empty positive set.
To what extent can these two be related by supplementing, narrowing or a combination in one way or another?

Simply spoken: ask the author.
refuseis no UML keyword and thus has no defined meaning. The same would go for avetoinstead.P.S.: https://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download;jsessionid=F3A44454D0F8FEB6EC6FBA5C11A4B0E4?doi=10.1.1.712.3387&rep=rep1&type=pdf
p. 13:
It's probably the author of your diagram?
P.P.S. The above citation is a paper from 2003. So I would not assume to see this change occur in UML any time soon.
As for the
negfragment which somehow should be replaced by the above UML 2.5.1 says on p. 584